Life in a Global Metropolis Can Be Full of Joy and Wonder

Igor, a participant in the cultural exchange program with China, shares another one of his vivid and engaging reflections—this time about living in Shanghai and embracing life in one of the world’s busiest, most fascinating cities:

I have to say—China is one of the most inspiring, vibrant, well-organized, and extraordinary countries I’ve ever experienced. Just a year ago, I never would have guessed that I’d be living on this side of the planet. But here I am, nearly two months into my Shanghai adventure—learning Mandarin, exploring Chinese culture, and slowly adjusting to a whole new rhythm of life. At this point, using a fork and knife feels strange!

Now, let’s talk about food—because if you think you’ve tried Chinese food back home in the Balkans, Europe, or even in the U.S., think again. Real Chinese food is a whole different story. It’s unbelievably flavorful, diverse, and fresh. There are ingredients and spices here that don’t even exist in other parts of the world—and they make all the difference. In Shanghai, seafood is king, paired with vegetables, meats, and aromatic herbs you’d never think to put together. It’s incredible.

Some fun facts about dining culture in China:

Forget the three-course format. Soup is served alongside the main dishes—not before them. And dessert isn’t even part of the meal!

You may not always know what you’re eating. Louts root? Duck parts that taste like vegetables? Texture and flavor can be a mystery, but it all works.

Chopsticks are an art form. Eating with them isn’t just about coordination—it’s about patience and finesse. Especially if you try the beloved hot pot dish, “huoguo,” which turns eating into a full-on fishing expedition.

Now let’s shift to the city vibe. One of the biggest surprises? How quiet it is. Seriously—Shanghai is one of the most populated cities in the world, yet the streets are calm, the traffic flows, and people rarely honk. Drivers actually stop when the light turns yellow. (Shocking, I know!) Bikers and scooter riders have near god-like status—they cruise through pedestrian zones and red lights like it’s their birthright.

Another fascinating cultural layer? Family structure. The Chinese language has specific words for family members depending on which side they come from (maternal or paternal), and whether they’re older or younger siblings. It shows how much value they place on family roles. I was lucky enough to attend the 90th birthday celebration of my host family’s great-grandmother. The gathering was more heartfelt and lively than any family event I’ve ever attended back home.

Hospitality? Unmatched. At that same birthday, everyone was genuinely curious about how I was adapting, if I was enjoying China, and how my Mandarin was coming along. They didn’t just exchange pleasantries—they connected. Deeply. And it left a lasting impression on me.

Shanghai has it all: towering skyscrapers, the largest subway system in the world, hip cafés, peaceful water towns, buzzing street markets, world-class museums, and endless surprises around every corner. And I’m just getting started.

Next time I check in, I hope to bring you stories with better Mandarin, steadier chopsticks, and even more insights into Chinese tradition and daily life. Until then, know this: life in a global city like Shanghai isn’t just manageable—it’s exceptional, memorable, and worth every second.